A wake up call for everyone

Life is a choice and it is up to you to choose whether to make things happen or just watch life go by.

Do you ever wonder where all those tummy churning excitement days in your life have gone? Are you just drifting and playing it safe or are you searching for the courage to get more out of life? Are you up for a challenge to pursue your dreams and even more happiness? Or are you waiting for some one else to do it for you?

Have you ever asked yourself any of these questions?                    

"Who am I?"

"Why am I here and what is my purpose?"

"How can I gain greater meaning in my life ?"

"What is life all about - Is this all there is?"

Have you experienced the wonder of you - the inside of you?

We are ALL unique and special just as we are right now as a person, but we sometimes don't realise or feel it  There is so much more to life if we open our minds and embrace all that we can. It can be a magical journey.

My magical journey expanded in my mid 40's when I learnt to embrace a new spiritual path and it has taught me so much about myself, and life in general, which is absolutely fascinating. Many people are now beginning to think about those questions above because we all want to get the most from our lives and we all can. It leads you to have a deeper understanding of the universe and of yourself. I hope to help many of you to understand more about the adventures you go on in your journey but we all experience different things for different reasons and that is why we are all unique.

We are all on a journey but we often don't really know ourselves or the people in our lives.We are all so often wrapped up in every day life being busy but we all have so much talent and abilities and yet often we do not look outside ourselves for inspiration. Sometimes we look to others who you think can give you this. We often just drift and accept and we don't challenge ourselves for various different reasons. But by taking that challenge it can be fun and will give you so much fullfilment.

Sometimes we know what we want to happen, but it dosn't happen, even though you have done all the positive thinking there is to do on the planet! There is far more to expanding your life than just positive thinking.

When you understand the process you become a magnet plus synchronicity will play a big part and bring you amazing results. But you need to know WHY you want something.  Have you attached emotions and feelings to it, imagined the outcome, dreamt it, visualised it, stretched it because this is a must for it to happen. That may sound odd to some of you but your energy thoughts need to go in one direction and maybe they are not focused enough.Concentrate on the 'wants' and take out the 'don't wants' in the conversations with yourself. Try it because it works!  I know from personal experience.  Or, sometimes we get so inspired - but you'll do it next week!

Can you relate to any of these:

• You have a feeling there is more to life - every day is the same. You are just existing.
• You have a successful career and all the material trappings you could want, but life isn't fulfilling - something is missing as you feel empty.
• You want to wake up full of joy on a new journey after something major has happened. The time has come to follow your own truth.

Many people feel that to have money, material things, love, be successful will make them happy. What you are doing is looking to the outside world for happiness, but happiness comes from inside ourselves. Often it isn't until we are older that we realise this, and even then not every one does. Sometimes we may feel that something is missing but we don't know what.

Rather than change ourselves and look within, we sometimes make excuses, blame others or our circumstances. Many people need to let go of the past and look to the future. We are often frightened about change, failure or rejection. We often don't know how to change, or how to change our circumstances, and so we just drift. If we have support and encouragement it can often lift those fears and we can amaze ourselves in what we can achieve when we have a deeper connection to ourselves.

Some people dwell on the negatives instead of rejoicing about the positive things. Praising ourselves and others for our achievements however big or small they maybe is so positive and important. Just try it and see the pleasure it gives to you and others!

Sometimes the simpliest conscious changes can have the most profound effect. This can give you a direction and more focus.

If you take:

One goal at a time...
One step at a time...
One day at a time...
One week at a time...

then nothing is impossible.

Small steps are believable and therefore achievable.

Every step takes you one step closer to where you want to be.

But we can take action and be less stressed, more accepting, relaxed, content and happier with ourselves and our lives. We can follow those grand ideas that we have. Often when we don't look to the outside world for happiness - it then comes to us.

No one knows what may happen in anyone's life (as Sheila didn't) but to get the most out of your life, and to do it in the 'now' is so important. Do you want your dream just to stay as a dream?

We do not all have big dreams, but we all have desires. These do not have to be big achievements, they can be very simple. But when we aim towards that dream or desire it can be a life changing experience. It can sometimes take time, patience and above all understanding but it will give you more meaning, focus and fun..

Money

It can buy you a house...but never a home
It can buy you a clock...but not time
It can buy you a position...but not respect
It can buy you a bed...but not sleep
It can buy you a book...but not knowledge
It can buy you medicines...but not good health
It can buy you acquaintances...but never friends
It can buy you blood...but not life
It can buy you sex...but not love
A chinese Proverb

Of course money is important, necessary and can buy you the fun and finer things in life but it is not everything. To be rich in money and rich in yourself is best shared with others and then money does buy happiness. Personal wealth will give you far more than material wealth.

Happiness also comes when you learn to know who you are and believe in yourself, accept others just as they are, appreciate what you have, then you will have more meaning in your life. We can often turn a negative situation into a positive if we have the right frame of mind and more understanding about our journey. Don't regret anything - learn from it and move on.

Our whole life is a journey

We are all different and we all have different needs, wants and desires which is individual to each and every one of us. It is your life - so why not live and enjoy it to the full?

If the time is right for you to move on with your life, and get the most out of it, then please do get in touch. We can support you in reaching your goals.